{"id":28024,"date":"2018-02-15T18:54:28","date_gmt":"2018-02-15T18:54:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/foreldrekompetanse.no\/?page_id=28024"},"modified":"2021-12-17T08:11:50","modified_gmt":"2021-12-17T06:11:50","slug":"communication-and-conflict-resolution-with-children","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/foreldrekompetanse.no\/en\/communication-and-conflict-resolution-with-children\/","title":{"rendered":"Communication and conflict resolution with children"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; fullwidth=&#8221;on&#8221; disabled_on=&#8221;on||&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; collapsed=&#8221;on&#8221;][et_pb_fullwidth_header title=&#8221;Communication and conflict resolution&#8221; subhead=&#8221;in relationships with children&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;right&#8221; content_max_width=&#8221;69%&#8221; content_max_width_tablet=&#8221;54%&#8221; content_max_width_phone=&#8221;31%&#8221; content_max_width_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; 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Good job.<\/p>\n<p><strong>B. Z.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Great workshop. I recommend it to all future or young parents so they could better understand themselves and the development of children. I am aware that my emotional development and the development of my child and the whole family is a lifelong process. The five phase model is a good approach J Thanks for a wonderful weekend experience.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Matja\u017e<\/strong>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><div class='one_third'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<p>Very good and interesting workshop. Answered to a lot of questions regarding relationship between siblings.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Z. J.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The workshop expanded my understanding of the parent-child relationship and how to resolve the conflict without (or with less) stress. It was exactly the right measure between theory, practice, practical examples. The lecturer is very competent, well prepared and with a great amount of experience. I recommend it to every parent.\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><div class='one_third et_column_last'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<p>The lecture was very interesting, with a lot of tips that I will be able to use in practice. The approach is new and I believe it will help to reduce conflicts in our family.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8212;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>At the seminar, I got a lot of practical guidelines on how to improve family conflicts, and especially valuable insights on where I stumbled as a mom. I also liked the structure very much, which cleared many things that I had already done myself, but somehow could not fit into context. So, I\u2019m going home wiser and, above all, much better equipped for all future challenges in family life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>H. P.<\/strong>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><div class='clear'><\/div><br \/>\n[\/et_pb_toggle][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; custom_padding_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;40px||40px||true|false&#8221; custom_padding_tablet=&#8221;50px|0|50px|0&#8243; custom_padding_phone=&#8221;&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row column_structure=&#8221;1_2,1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;older children&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"heading\">Also for professionals, as well as parents of older children.<\/h3>\n<p>Although the analogies used in the course are primarily based on interactions with children, the concepts taught are highly relevant to parents of older children and teens, those who work with children in kindergartens,\u00a0 schools and elsewhere, as well as adults and professionals in general.<\/p>\n<h3>Course date<\/h3>\n<p>22-23rd of September 2018, in Ljubljana, Slovenia. Please visit the <a href=\"https:\/\/familylab.si\/laboratorij\/za-starse-in-stare-starse\/conflict-management-course-for-parents-and-professionals\/\"><strong>organizer&#8217;s website<\/strong> <\/a>for more information about venue, price and\u00a0signing up.<br \/>\n[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/foreldrekompetanse.no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/angry-boy-1.jpg&#8221; align=&#8221;right&#8221; force_fullwidth=&#8221;on&#8221; align_tablet=&#8221;center&#8221; align_phone=&#8221;&#8221; align_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.23&#8243; animation=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#f0e6e4&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row column_structure=&#8221;1_2,1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Important skills&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h3>Important skills for all areas of life.<\/h3>\n<p>Another benefit of this course is that it helps parents improve communication and cooperation between each other, as both parents learn the skills of developmentally-oriented conflict management together. Many of our participants tells us they can use the skills and principles taught in this course also in other areas, management posistions, customer service and so on.<\/p>\n<p>Having children, and also working with children, are the best opportunity we have to learn and become extra good at communication and conflict resolution. This is especially so for those who experience more, and more intense, conflicts. Maybe because one has children with extra willpower, or because the child have experienced stress or trauma.<\/p>\n<p>When we develop these skills to a higher level in ourself, we can also better support our children in developing these critically important life skills.<br \/>\n[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/foreldrekompetanse.no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/iStock_57082242-compressed.jpg&#8221; align_tablet=&#8221;center&#8221; align_phone=&#8221;&#8221; align_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.23&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_testimonial _builder_version=&#8221;3.2.2&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]An exceptional workshop which I first attended thinking about children, but it quickly turned my attention to myself. I\u2019ve been thinking about how to re-evaluate, set up, color my attitude towards myself, my work, my free time, my friends and the most important thing: my boys. I came for more knowledge on dealing with children, and I gained an integrated life lesson. THANK YOU!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Martina<\/strong><br \/>\n[\/et_pb_testimonial][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; custom_padding_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; disabled_on=&#8221;on||&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#f5f5f5&#8243; custom_padding_tablet=&#8221;50px|0|50px|0&#8243; custom_padding_phone=&#8221;&#8221; padding_mobile=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row column_structure=&#8221;2_3,1_3&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;2_3&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h1 class=\"heading\" style=\"text-align: center;\">Here are some of the topics we explore in the course:<\/h1>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;I sm\u00e5barnsalderen&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>What you can do to prevent conflict.<\/li>\n<li>How to use empathy and active listening skills to resolve disputes quickly and to calm children who are angry, tired, or experiencing difficulty (without relaxing limits and boundaries).<\/li>\n<li>How to make better decisions regarding limits and boundaries while taking the child\u2019s integrity and point of view into account.<\/li>\n<li>Different ways to say \u201cno\u201d and when and how to use them most effectively.<\/li>\n<li>The really tough stuff: How to take responsibility for your own role in a conflict situation that ended negatively; how you can, over time, improve parent-child conflict resolution; how to repair breaches of trust caused by parent-child conflict.<\/li>\n<li>The nonverbal elements of communication.<\/li>\n<li>How using these principles can make setting boundaries easier for you and more constructive for your children.<\/li>\n<li>How using these principles can help your child learn social skills, set boundaries for themselves, and recognize and respect the boundaries set by others.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_3&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_testimonial author=&#8221;Peder&#8221; quote_icon_color=&#8221;#c3c63b&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.2&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; border_radii_portrait=&#8221;on||||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]It\u2019s brilliant. At home, our little miss \u2018helps\u2019 us with daily chores, and we have reduced our crisis level to practically zero. This course should be mandatory for all parents!<br \/>\n[\/et_pb_testimonial][et_pb_testimonial author=&#8221;Anne Gry Ven\u00e5s&#8221; quote_icon_color=&#8221;#c3c63b&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.14.2&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; border_radii_portrait=&#8221;on||||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p>This course was very helpful to us. We have a lot less conflict now and the ones we do have are resolved easily and quickly. <\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_testimonial][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row column_structure=&#8221;2_3,1_3&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;2_3&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;The course is led by:&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"heading\"><span class=\"\">The course is led by:<\/span><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-28097\" src=\"https:\/\/foreldrekompetanse.no\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/hans-300x169-compressed.jpg\" alt=\"Hans Holter Solhjell\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\"><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/famlab.no\/hans-holter-solhjell\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>Hans Holter Solhjell<\/strong><\/a>, the longstanding leader of <a href=\"https:\/\/famlab.no\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Familylab Norway<\/a>, lecturer, trainer, coach and counsellor.<\/p>\n<p>Hans has been training courses for parents and&nbsp;professionals since 2006. Before that, he completed a major subject in pedagogy at PFI, Pedagogical Research Institute at UIO and also worked a period at the Oslo Police College where he taught psychology.<\/p>\n<p>For the past 25 years he has&nbsp;been actively involved in self-development and focused on learning and change processes, body-oriented methods, communication and conflict management, etc. He is also trained&nbsp;in the Feldenkrais method, in Communication and change processes, the Sounder Sleep System, in SE, Somatic Experiencing, and is also certified as Certification Trainer in TRE, Trauma Release Exercises.<\/p>\n<p>Daily, he counsels and holds courses for parents, kindergartens, and schools, and also works with&nbsp;body-oriented trauma therapy, learning and development processes.<br \/>\n[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_3&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_testimonial quote_icon_color=&#8221;#c3c63b&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.2&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;center&#8221; border_radii_portrait=&#8221;on||||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">This course gave me some big aha moments! Every parent should take this parenting course! Now that I understand my child and don\u2019t just view him as \u2018difficult\u2019 I am much more patient.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_testimonial][et_pb_testimonial author=&#8221;V. S.&#8221; quote_icon_color=&#8221;#c3c63b&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.2&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;center&#8221; border_radii_portrait=&#8221;on||||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">It all makes sense now &#x1f60a; I was really happy to experience this workshop because it enabled me to put the right perspective to relationship with my kids and between siblings. I&#8217;d recommend it to everyone but especially teachers and pedagogical professionals.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_testimonial][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; custom_padding_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; disabled_on=&#8221;on|on|&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#f0ffff&#8221; custom_padding_tablet=&#8221;50px|0|50px|0&#8243; custom_padding_phone=&#8221;&#8221; padding_mobile=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;faq&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"heading\"><span style=\"text-align: center;\"><span id=\"result_box\" class=\"short_text\" lang=\"en\"><span class=\"\">Frequently asked questions about the course<\/span><\/span>:<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=&#8221;1_2,1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_toggle title=&#8221;How is the course laid out?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.106&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]For Slovenina the course is scheduled for two full days. Learning activities are focused on concrete and practical ideas and skills you can learn to use in your everyday life. You will learn these concepts and skills through presentations, examples, demonstrations, and exercises. In addition, you will receive extensive written course materials.<br \/>\n[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=&#8221;Conflicts with my child are not always ordinary. My child sometimes becomes angry enough to hit, kick, bite, scream, throw things, run away and so on. Will this course help me?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.98&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]Yes. As a matter of fact, an important goal of the course is for parents to learn how to deal with exactly these types of situations, which happens in more families than you might think. We discuss in detail how to prevent such escalations, as well as how to manage the situation when your attempts at prevention are unsuccessful. We also put special emphasis on learning valuable long-term lessons from these situations.<br \/>\n[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=&#8221;Who is this course for?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.98&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]This course is relevant for all parents, although many of the examples used during the course are be based on families with children aged two to six. The course is also very helpful to daycare and kindergarten employees as well as other professionals who work with children and parents.<br \/>\nPeople with older children, people expecting their first, second, third or more child \u2013 and even people with no children in their lives \u2013 have also benefited greatly from taking this course. Actually, anybody who wants to learn about conflict management can pick up a lot of wisdom from this course.<br \/>\n[\/et_pb_toggle][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_toggle title=&#8221;Can I ask questions about my personal situation during the course?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.98&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]Absolutely. For the most part, we deal with individual questions about particular situations towards the end of the course after everyone has a basic grasp on the practical concepts. Getting into specific situations experienced by individual participants at that point makes the discussion much more effective and easier for participants to relate to.<br \/>\n[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=&#8221;The conflicts in our family are primarily between the children themselves, not so much between us (the parents) and our children. Will this course help us?&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.98&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]This course was designed primarily to help people understand and handle adult-child conflict, but we address child-child conflict as well, especially when asked about it. Being able to constructively manage adult-child conflict is a prerequisite to being able to manage conflicts between children.<br \/>\n[\/et_pb_toggle][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; custom_padding_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; disabled_on=&#8221;on|on|&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#f0ffff&#8221; custom_padding_tablet=&#8221;50px|0|50px|0&#8243; custom_padding_phone=&#8221;&#8221; padding_mobile=&#8221;off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_toggle title=&#8221;See more testimonials here:&#8221; icon_color=&#8221;#c3c63b&#8221; open_icon_color=&#8221;#c3c63b&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Testimonials Toggle&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.13.0&#8243; title_text_color=&#8221;#c3c63b&#8221; title_level=&#8221;h3&#8243; title_text_align=&#8221;center&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<div class='one_third'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<p>An inspiring workshop with great empathy and feeling for children. Obviously, too, a lot of knowledge. I will use many things in my work with children at school. The use of examples has also greatly helped to understand the approach. I like the approach that allows dignity to be maintained both for the parent and for the child, while at the same time it places leadership and responsibility on the parents&#8217; side. I also enjoyed Hans&#8217;s pragmatic views and a sense of humor!<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8212;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Great workshop. Perhaps it could very well last for 3 days because there really is so much to talk about. I got a lot of good ideas and tips on how to react in new conflict situations.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8212;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A very useful seminar, lots of concrete information and ideas on how to behave in situations and what to avoid. Would&#8217;n hurt if the seminar was longer with more time for individual issues. &#x1f60a; The lecturer nevertheless made a great deal of effort and responded promptly, but at the same time provided all relevant information. Great!<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8212;<\/strong>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><div class='one_third'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<p>The seminar was useful. As a reminder of all the knowledge I have received at all the other familylab seminars so far. As an upgrade. Very useful. Work on self. The graph will definitely hang on the refrigerator.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8212;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I thought I was good at handling conflicts with my children but I got a very clear workframe with details on the dynamics of the conflict and successfull leadership. A lot of good concrete advice and ideas. I would be happy to participate in another similar seminar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>J.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Congratulations! A great workshop with many practical tips.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8212;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>An exceptional workshop which I first attended thinking about children, but it quickly turned my attention to myself. I&#8217;ve been thinking about how to re-evaluate, set up, color my attitude towards myself, my work, my free time, my friends and the most important thing: my boys. I came for more knowledge on dealing with children, and I gained an integrated life lesson. THANK YOU!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Martina<\/strong><\/p>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><div class='one_third et_column_last'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<p>I was pleased with the workshop. I already knew most of the material, I only needed to clarify some detail. It was good because the lecturer presented a lot of examples. 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